Some time back I would keep gay stuff like movies and advocate magazine in my closet. Afraid that some one visiting my home would catch on. Well, I don't have a box of gay stuff in my closet any more, it is out and around my home.
One day I saw a car with a rainbow strip in the back (1cm by 90cm), I thought it looked cool. Sense then I have noticed other stickers so I decided to get one for my car. It is on but I couldn't stop thinking about it all night and all the way to work. All night I would run this scenarios where my window gets broken or tagged because of the sticker. While driving I couldn't stop wondering if the car behind me had noticed the sticker.
So at the moment I am not sure if I will remove it because it is a bit tacky (didn't seem that way before I put it on) or because I can't stop thinking that everyone is looking at it and judging me for it.
What do you all think? do you have stuff on your car?
Victor, if it worries you, maybe you do need to take it off. But I like those kinds of things. I have the HRC (blue square with yellow equal sign) on my car. I saw a bumper sticker the other day that said, "No one knows I'm a lesbian". I loved it!
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Grace is the acceptance of that which is rejected. ~Paul Tillich
I wear to work a rainbow bracelet that says "GOD LOVES YOU" written on it. I am going to use it BOTH as a "witnessing tool" for my faith, as well as a symbol of my gay pride.
I RAINBOWS! I would only remove the sticker if I thought that it looked "tacky".
"And I see your TRUE COLORS shining through,
I see your true colors...and that's why I LOVE YOU!
Since I live in the land of palm trees (Palm Springs) I want the palm trees in the rainbow colors Other than that it is just a plain Mitsu 4 door Lancer in tan color.
I have to say that the GAYEST car in the world is...KITT from "Knight Rider".
1. This car looked HOTT in black.
2. It could "accessorize" with any and all electronic devices...most of which were strapped onto its "turbo-booster".
3. It had the most EFFEMINATE-sounding voice on the planet! You almost expected Michael to jump behind the wheel and say, "Okay, buddy! Let's go catch some bad guys!" and KITT would reply, "Sure thing Michael...and by the way...have you ever thought about letting me do your HAIR? There goes KARR! YOO-HOO! KARR! Don't make come and chase after YOU, now!"
No....I have the gayest car ever made.....it is a BRIGHT yellow beetle!! I dont need any stickers on my car to say I am gay....the car does that all by itself...by the way, my cars name is "Lola" :)
Today was a lot better, I only thought about the sticker for halfway to work lol. I have been thinking about it less and less. I know I want to have the sticker on my car, it makes me feel good to see stickers on other cars, like I am normal or fit in...I don't know.
may i ask (i'll ask anyways...feel free to not answer :) ) how long have you been 'out'?
not a problem at all. I spoke the words "I am gay" to the first person ever only about 10 months ago. I am out to my mom, sisters, and all of my close friends, every one has been great and supportive. The one to take it the hardest has definitely been myself, one would think that after 15 yrs of thinking about it I would be over it but it just hasn't happened yet not 100%. Things (thoughts of myself) have been getting better over the past yr but I still have my days
RAINBOWS! 
I would only remove the sticker if I thought that it looked "tacky".
