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Darrel


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If this is controversial, move it in there. I'm not too sure where this one falls.

Anyway, what's wrong with me? lol. It's taken me 22.9 years to start being attracted to women??

The more I'm thinking about it--the more I want to date, and become romantically involved.
*bleh*

Any takers?
I dunno what I want from this post. I guess I'm confused, happy, sad, confused, and did I mention confused?

*christian hugs*
Darrel


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TaterHead


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This is the problem that I have with "labels"...they make you feel "trapped" into a stereotype of someone that doesn't really exist! To me, there is only LOVE! You love either a man or a woman or, if your bisexual, both.


What I really think that you should do is ask yourself this question: "Do I let my heart follow my "manhood"? Or do I let my manhood follow my heart?" Have you really fallen in love with this girl (which I hope that you've adored all of this time), or are you pining away for a fantasy ABOUT this girl: the idea of being "normal" and having a house with a picket fence, two-car garage and a couple of kids. If your new sexual orientation is really a natural love for this woman, then by all means ENJOY being with this woman. But if it's from the false hope that this woman can make you "normal"...then I think that you need to go to www.advocate.com and read the article called "It's good to be a mutant"


Only you and God can decide what you REALLY feel towards this woman...



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Chris


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A friend of mine thought he was completely straight until he was 23 or 24 and then realized he was partially bisexual. I don't think this kind of thing is unheard-of. Just be true to who you really are and don't feel pressured one way or the other by other people's opinions of what you "should" do.

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I agree with Jeffrey & Chris.  Be true to who you are!!!

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