I'm sorry, Tim. I wish I had some magic words to take your pain away. But if it makes you feel any better, you've got us!! I know, not a very good substitution, but all I can offer. You have my email if you want to talk!
Love ya,
Lisa
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Grace is the acceptance of that which is rejected. ~Paul Tillich
I ask you to be with Tim as he deals with his broken heart. Help him to see that you and us here at TSA love him COMPLETELY and without any condition. Let him know that your eternal love can heal and mend his hurting soul. Assure him that while man's love is imperfect, and that the ones closest to us will always seem to hurt us the most...YOUR love is absolutely perfect, and that you will NEVER hurt him, but will use this trial in his life to make him a stronger and more better person, full of compassion and joy. And these factors will help him find the one that YOU have in store to be his "one and only". You never give up on us, so we will never give up on ourselves. Bless him, Lord, with love. For in Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
"Those that sew with tears...shall reap in sheaves of joy!"
Tim, I'm so sorry this situation has happened this way. I don't totally understand the whole story, but I definitely get the impression this guy was trying to use you somehow. I'm really sorry and I'm praying you that the sad feelings of this situation will pass and you will be left simply with wisdom for the future.
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"I'd place myself... oh... somewhere between Galadriel and Peter Griffin."